Communicating with Horses…

I usually write about something related to writing but today I’m going for something completely different.

I believe we should never stop learning and should take every opportunity to try new things. Recently, I was lucky enough to spend a week at the Tracy James Natural Horse Center, learning about natural horsemanship with Tracy James Ford and Mary Walker. Basically, learning how to make my communication with my horse clearer while developing a unique understanding of the horse’s language… Horses are prey animals. Humans are predators. We have to understand and work within those parameters.

These are the sort of questions we were asked during the course: Are you as effective working on distance as you are on the end of a rope?? Does your horse look to you for support, guidance and leadership…when he has a choice?

P1010029We did a lot of work in the round pen with the horses at liberty, learning how to send them away (Tracy and Mary teach that if you have the right energy and understand a little of how horses react then you can move a horse with nothing more than your breath—and it works. I saw it in action) and also to draw them to you. It’s an amazing feeling when a horse is free to go anywhere and chooses to approach you (and absolutely no bribes were involved.)


One of the main things I learned was that I have a huge amount of things to unlearn. I’ve been sitting all wrong. 12141596_1057061770979587_7578747853320624303_nAnd I’ve been letting my mare, Gencianna, into my space and allowing her to move me around as though I’m the lowliest member of the herd.

That has to change, but the change has to come from me rather than her. I had this pivotal moment half way through the week, when I realized that it’s not about me training my horse to do anything, but rather training myself to listen to what she’s saying to me and communicate what I’d like from her in a clear and horsey way. Neigh!

Back home now, I’m trying to share what I’ve learned with Gencianna. I’m not entirely sure she’s convinced but we will persevere. Robin my husband seems equally skeptical when I tried it on him.

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About Nina Croft

Nina Croft grew up in the north of England. After training as an accountant, she spent four years working as a volunteer in Zambia which left her with a love of the sun and a dislike of 9-5 work. She then spent a number of years mixing travel (whenever possible) with work (whenever necessary) but has now settled down to a life of writing and picking almonds on a remote farm in the mountains of southern Spain. Nina writes all types of romance often mixed with elements of the paranormal and science fiction.

4 Responses to Communicating with Horses…

  1. Barb Heintz says:

    How to make a research project fun. Plus improve your own riding skills. You can weave little tidbits into your stories – how the hero controls his mount when he’s saving a fair maiden.

  2. I’m going to share this with my Horses Bring Hope friends. Great post–maybe you’ll get some new readers! 🙂

    It’s very true about horses, though. One of the things I’d really like to do is get my Eagala certification and bring these techniques to our equine therapy center, specifically for law enforcement professionals. They could benefit from learning how to control a person–or even a crowd of people–only by the way they hold their bodies and use their energy. It’s not about strength or force, but will and energy. 🙂 So amazing!

    • Nina Croft says:

      You definitely could Cyn – but I think it would be very different than with horses. I think because they are prey animals and we are predators we react totally differently to the same circumstances.

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