I’m so stressed. On top of the holidays, I’m preparing for a sale next month of my first book, Infamous, and the release of the first book in my Viva Las Vegas trilogy in February. Compounding that, all three books will be released within four months.
But, then I realized we’re all stressed right now. The holidays are enough to push anyone over the edge. Presents to budget for (and then wrap–who has the time?), holiday dinners to make or attend, family members who maybe aren’t people you’d really rather deal with. The list is as long as Santa’s naughty list.
So, instead of just complaining about it (which I totally just did–sorry!), I thought I’d compile a list of things to instead of obsessing about what to buy your Uncle Mike.
- Color–Everyone seems to be doing it now. Adult coloring books are all the rage. If I had to recommend one, it would be Jenny Lawson’s You Are Here. She’s fabulous, her books are enlightening (though she drops the f-bomb more than a couple of times), and her drawings are enough to draw you in and make you forget for a moment that you. are. so. stressed. Plus, the American Art Therapy Association says that while it doesn’t replace therapy, it can reduce stress effectively.
- Practice gratitude–It’s so easy for us to succumb to the mountain of worry that the holidays bring. But, there are good things, too. We know that, of course, but knowing it and getting it are two different things. Say thank you or start a gratitude journal wherein you write down two or three things you’re grateful for each day. It really can make a difference.
- Live in the moment–At the end of the day, this is a time for family and memories. Don’t be so busy recording or taking pictures that you forget to just take a deep breath and enjoy the moment. Just bask in the warmth of the fire, or your kids not arguing, or baking with a family member. Just… let it wash over you.
I’m no expert, but for me, these are ways to let go of some of the anxiety I experience about the myriad of things I need to do. I hope they help you out, too.
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Sounds so ominous right? But honestly, I can’t believe how quickly this year has flown by. As soon as Thanksgiving hits, I immediately find myself in panic mode because it signals the end of the year is just around the corner. And every year it seems to come faster and faster. As I reflect back on the year I’ve had, I’m pleased with what it has brought me. I packed up and moved my boys and I to a small town in Utah and it has made a positive impact on all our lives. I mean, just look at that scenery…gorgeous!
I released a new book that I am in love with that is set around the holidays and introduces readers to my new fictional town of Serendipity, Texas. The characters in this series really speak to me and I can’t wait for the second book to come out.
I adopted two little fur babies and gave them a forever home. Kona was my first and she brought so much joy that when the opportunity to take in a another, I brought home Maui. They are a handful but so much fun!
All in all, it has been quite a successful year and I am thrilled to be where I am. It’s taken a long time for me to get to a point where I could say that. So tell me, how was your year? Share your proud moments…your accomplishments…your little thrills.
Kinsey Corwin, a contemporary romance author who really is drawn to small town stories, beaches, and cowboys (I know, that is quite a mix). She is a single mom of amazing boys, a fan of kitchen experiments, a lover of country music, and a dreamer.
Hi, all! Jennifer here.
I don’t know about you, but I love READING Christmas books almost as much as I love WATCHING Christmas movies on TV this time of year! It just gets me in the spirit for the holidays.
There have been so many great choices of Christmas books I’ve seen on Goodreads and Instagram it’s hard to choose. But choose I did. Some of these books I bought in paperback and some are on my Kindle now waiting to be read.
So just in case you want to know what’s on my Christmas To-Be-Read List, I’ll share it with you now!
- Coming Home for Christmas by Jenny Hale — this is actually a Hallmark movie now. I haven’t watched it yet. I waiting to read the book first!
- Holiday Wishes by Jill Shalvis— this was recommended to me by one of our fellow authors here, so I downloaded it. Can’t wait!
- A Bramble House Christmas by CJ Carmichael— Ok, so this is a Hallmark movie too. But one I already watched and loved so I HAD to go and buy the book. 🙂
- An Ex for Christmas by Lauren Layne— love a good friends to lovers romance so I bought.
And if you happen to be looking for yet another holiday read, don’t forget to check out my book:
Wrong Brother, Right Match
Matchmaking guru Kennedy Pepperdine’s life is perfect. Perfect job. Perfect friends. Perfect boyfriend. Except…when she gets trapped in an elevator with a handsome stranger, she accidentally confesses a secret: maybe her perfect boyfriend, Justin, isn’t so perfect for her after all. But a matchmaker should be able to successfully match herself, right? Thankfully, she’ll never see the handsome stranger again. Until she heads home with Justin for the holidays and learns that the sexy stranger is none other than Justin’s older brother, Matt.
Matt Ellis is trying to be on his best behavior for his mother—it is Christmas, after all. But when he recognizes the beautiful woman from the elevator—the one he hasn’t been able to stop thinking about for months—his best behavior is being held by a thread. Matt’s always sacrificed for his family, and nothing is more important than their happiness, but the more time he spends around Kennedy, the more he wonders if her supposed “right match” might just be the wrong brother.
What Holiday books are on your To-Be-Read list?
Jennifer Shirk is a USA Today bestselling sweet romance author for Montlake and Entangled Publishing who also happens to be a mom, pharmacist, Red Sox fan, P90x grad, and overall nice person. Check out her latest sweet romance: WRONG BROTHER, RIGHT MATCH.